YOU deserve real L❤️VE!

me4Hello my dearest ones ! Lately i´ve been in a really nice state , the feeling that everything is going to be ok ,the feeling that ,if the past relationship didn’t work out it doesn’t mean I don’t deserve to be loved . I said to myself: YOU  my dear deserve happiness. YOU deserve to be respected, treated well, strengthened, and appreciated. YOU deserve a partner who see YOU beyond your faults and flaws. A partner who will inspire you, who will bring you up when we’re down, who will support you when you can’t find your footing, who won’t leave when times get tough or something better comes along. YOU deserve the world. YOU deserve to fall into a relationship with someone who adore YOU, with that person who see you as valuable, and special, and worthy of their affection and attention.

YOU deserve real L❤️VE —the passionate, steady, consistent, dedicated LOVE. And no, you honestly shouldn’t settle for anything less.

There isn’t perfection. There isn’t a person who will cross of every item on our list or meet all the criterion in my mind or always say and do the right thing, but there is such thing as real love. And I should let myself fall deeply into that, and only that.But the problem with honoring what I deserve and not settling for anything else, is that sometimes it leads me into entitlement. Sometimes it gives me a big head, makes me feel as if i´m on top of the world and that no one is worthy of the love that I give.

But this makes me wonder … Am I giving that kind of LOVE in return ?

No, I should never settle. But am I becoming the person who deserves the love i´m looking for?

Am I becoming the partner who will do the same for ,my forever person ? The partner who is steady, consistent, dedicated, trustworthy, honorable? The partner who will strive to be the best it can, not only for myself and others, but for each other?

There is so much to be said for not settling, for holding out for the right people, for not falling into relationships purely because of the fear of being alone. There is so much to be said about being with someone who builds you, rather than breaks you. Or finding your way out of something unhealthy or toxic.But we also have to take a look inside ourselves, too.

It’s not solely about finding the love that I deserve, but making sure I’m a loving person and I deserve to be loved, too.

Because at the end of the day, we’re all human and we’re all looking for connections with one another. At the end of the day, we’re all trying to find someone whose soul and mindset are compatible with ours, enough to tie our lives together. Love isn’t easy. It isn’t waking up to another beautiful day with a beautiful person in a beautiful home with a beautiful life. It’s conflict. It’s frustration. It’s not always seeing eye-to-eye, and staying up late arguing about pointless crap. It’s not knowing what to say. It’s feeling empty sometimes. It’s wanting to give up. But it’s staying. It’s fighting. It’s continuing. It’s working back to affection, simply because you’ve chosen this person. And you’ll continue to choose them, no matter how hard life gets.

So please, never settle for what isn’t LOVE. Never fall into something just because you’re tired of being alone, or you’re scared, or because you feel there’s no other option.Please, never forget that you’re worthy of being chosen.
But also make sure to fight to be someone worth choosing.

With all my love , 

Gabrielle x ❤️

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The importance of feeling important 

        Sometimes life feels like a flat line. Nothing is terrible. But nothing is really great, either. You live your days. You fight for the weekends. Time passes. And then it’s back to the beginning again, to a monotonous blue Monday when you return to your numbness, to your flaky job, to daydreaming for hours about all the things you wish you could change. You think about what you should be doing instead of all of this, because whatever this is isn’t working. And as the days crawl along, draining all the lush creativity you thought had once defined your character, the more stuck and uninspired you get.
You want to shake free from this terrible web. You want to rediscover that part of yourself that once was so steadfast and full of ideas, when everything you ever wanted to do in life seemed so possible. These days it just feels whatever now. It’s like the color in your mind has disappeared. And you miss it, that lust for life and how it felt when your mind was challenged. This is when you miss college the most, when you were surrounded by intellectual energy and writing and books and conversations that made you think and see the world differently. But college was so long ago. That passion didn’t stay alive. The rut had won. And now everything is the same.
This is also when you miss having great conversations with people who have done crazy beautiful things in life who can teach you things and make you discover things about yourself that you never saw before. Now you sit in a room full of people having the same flat conversation that you’ve heard a million times and you’ve never felt more alone or misunderstood.
So you dive into books and music and wine, trying to immerse yourself in new light and big thoughts so you can reimagine your place in the world, your truth, your purpose. But it isn’t that easy to make those kinds of changes sometimes. It’s actually really hard to overcome feeling irrelevant. When your place in the world feels like a void, it feels as though at any second you’ll just disappear and nobody will know and it won’t make any bit of difference.
I wanted to matter in this world.
I wanted my mind and my creativity to make a difference. And I knew I was important but I wanted to feel important. And nothing I was doing was granting that. It was my own fault. I was a broken record. I needed to break free from the drudgery. I needed to find my spark again. And I needed to stop feeling like a victim because I had lost myself, because I wasn’t challenged, because I had become stagnant and continued to surround myself by people who I had zero connection with, and because I kept working a job that numbed me. But I refused to feel irrelevant anymore.
It wouldn’t all change overnight. But you have to believe in it. That’s how the first step goes. And as impossible as it might seem, whatever is it for you in terms of your greatest happiness or achievement, just know that it is possible.
But you have to wholly immerse yourself in this new world. You have to surround yourself with people who are passionate about things–people you can have deep conversations with and those you can learn something from. And if this means rethinking the people in your life because they don’t make you feel good, because they make you feel empty, because nobody has anything positive to say, then it is what it is. You have to do things that will challenge you, make you think, make you ask questions, and will help you embrace your talents again (or might even help you discover new ones). Because when you do all of this, when you refuse to feel stagnant and unimportant by doing everything differently than how it’s been, you will find yourself again.


Something in you will reignite. And you will rediscover the magic of possibility in this illuminated new world that reminds you just how important you and your talents really are.

Love , G x ❤️

Testing sweet and salty Asian food

Hello dear ones 🙂 Today I’ve made a video with my best friend Sonia from Gustamonton YouTube Channel ,testing some funny sweet and salty  Asian Products. Making this video was the best part , we laugh so much and made a lot of bloopers. Hope you enjoy watching this video as much as we did.

Love Gx

 

Detox hair, minimized pores …

Hello my beauties, now you can get a DETOX hair at home ,very easy and simple .Also you can minimize your pores by using just one ingredient …i say no more , enjoy the video here :

Much Love  Gx ❤

 

 

My first Review: L´Oreal Magic Retouch

Hey my dear ones, so I know is been a while since my last appearance on my YouTube Channel , but here it goes one of my very first reviews on a product. I must say I was really curious to try this product and I was anxious to make a review. The result about this product it really surprised me and got me like : “Woooooooow… “ Have you heard about this Magic Retouch ? Have you tried it ? Tell me what you think and have a look about how it worked on me 😉

Thank you for watching my video and for the support.

Much love and kisses to you my dear ones

G xo ❤

 

 

 

MBFWM16 porque amo Agatha Ruiz de la Prada

Hola guapísimas ,sobre el desfile de este 19 de febrero, Agatha Ruiz de la Prada trae una gran cantidad de su buen ambiente, positivo, feliz y colorido como cada edición de Mercedes Benz Fashion Week Madrid alias MBFWM. Año tras año se supera a sí misma y está creando un vínculo muy especial con su público, los fans, la mayoría de ellos ya son amigos ,que se unen a este fantástico evento absolutamente maravilloso y colorido de moda. Si no fuera por Agatha Ruiz de la Prada, creo que este evento se convertiría en algo muy serio,algo triste , con poco color buuu muy soso verdad ?!

No puedo estar más encantada con Agatha Ruiz de la Prada, mi diseñadora favorita. He llegado conocerla hace unos años y simplemente me enamore de ella. Comencé  a visitar la tienda en Madrid (Serrano 27) y comprar ropa que me encanta lo feliz, alegre y  muy asequible que es. No sabía lo que iba a ocurrir a continuación, empecé a subir algunas fotos mías #agathizada en Instagram , y para mi sorpresa,había toda una comunidad ahí  apoyando y amando a Agatha Ruiz de la Prada. Así que empecé a unirme a ellos, poco a poco, me he comprado más ropa, más fotos, más Likes y lo suficientemente pronto ya llegaba la Vogue Fashion Night Out , por supuesto, no yo podía faltar, sobre todo si la tienda  ARP estaba participando, yo sólo quería unirme a ellos. Así que allí estaba yo, entrando en la tienda, cuando escucho mi nombre y algunas chicas saludándome, como ..? Empecé a pensar, ¿de dónde me conocen? Entonces me vino en la mente Instagram ! 🙂

En resumen ,he empezado a amar esta encantadora comunidad y a estas personas que lo forman, donde vayas si te ven llevar algo de ARP ya comienzan a hablar contigo y sin dudarlo te dan la bienvenida con una gran sonrisa en la cara . Poco después llegó la MBFWM y empecé a aficionarme más a mi diseñadora favorita, ella simplemente no diseña ropa y la vende,  Ella cambia el mundo, al menos en mi opinión. Ella esta involucrada en muchos eventos ,proyectos y sin dar un paso atrás ,de cualquier cosa, lo que sea, ella está allí para poner su CORAZÓN  y darle vida a todo aquello . Y por eso realmente YO AMO a Agatha Ruiz de la Prada <3

About MBFWM16 why I <3 Ágatha Ruiz de la Prada !

Hello gorgeous ones,

About the Runway this 19th of February , where Agatha Ruiz de la Prada brings a whole lot of her good, positive, happy and colorful vibe to every  Mercedes Benz Fashion Week Madrid aka MBFWM edition . Year after year is exceeded itself and is creating a very special bond between her and her audience, fans, most of them friends now ,are joining this fantastic, absolutely marvelous color splashing Fashion Event . If it wasn’t for Agatha Ruiz de la Prada , I think this event would turn into a very serious ,sad, no color event … buu ,how sad no?!

I can´t be more delighted about Agatha Ruiz de la Prada, my favorite designer. I´ve got to know it a few years ago and I simply felt in love with it. I´ve started to visit the shop in Madrid (Serrano 27 ) and buy the cheerful, very affordable and happy clothes . I didn’t know what was going to happen next, I started to upload some photos of me on Instagram  #agathizada , and to my surprise it was a whole community out there loving and supporting Agatha Ruiz de la Prada . So I started to join them , little by little , I bought more clothes ,more pictures , more likes and soon enough it was the Vogue Fashion Night Out Event , of course I couldn’t miss it ,especially if the ARP  store was participating ,I wanted to just join them . So there I was ,finding my way in , when I hear my name and some girls saying hello to me ,like they know me .. I started to think ,from where do they know me ? Then it came to mind , #Instagram !

 Long story short I’ve started to love this beautiful community ,this people, who wherever you go and if they see you wearing something from ARP they start talking to you and welcome you without any bad feelings and with a great big SMILE on their faces. Soon after it came the MBFWM and I started to get very fond about my favorite designer, she just doesn’t make clothes and sells them,she changes the world, at least in my opinion. She´s been involved in many events ,and doesn´t take one step back from anything, what ever it is , she is there putting her HEART right in the middle of it . And that’s why I truly love Agatha Ruiz de la Prada ❤